r/SecretsOfMormonWives

Sin #1 : Low effort post

We don't do lazy posts here. Put some thought and intention into your posts, all of which require: flair selection, a descriptive title, and body text (this includes posts sharing photos, videos, and links). This also goes for cross posting from other subs, please create a new post instead.

Put your personal touch on things, but no drive-by "hot takes" (we promise you, we've heard it before). Posts that sit with little to no engagement (<5 comments) will be removed after 24 hours.

Sin #2 : Duplicate posts

We live for content, but thrive on variety.

The search bar & flair categories are your friends, & we encourage you to visit with them to avoid duplicate threads.

Posts that repeat opinions & news that have already been covered by another post recently will be removed.

Sin #3: Disrespecting your fellow Saints & Sinners

Let your morals guide your shade. No keyboard crusades or comment-section brawls. MomTok may be messy, but this space isn’t for dogpiling, downvote vendettas, or dragging people for sport. Disagree with grace, not grit. Any comments using name-calling, hate speech, or violent language towards another user will be deleted.

This includes responding "Hi (cast member's name)". Sass is a dish best served cold, not corny. Microaggressions are low-vibrational energy and will be removed from the chat.

Sin #4: Being the villain

Don’t be nasty for the sake of it. Opinions are welcomed but this sub is a safe space, for fans & cast members alike. We have a zero tolerance policy on name-calling & discrimination. Any posts that are racist, homophobic, or discriminating in nature will be removed & users will be immediately banned from this sub.

No negative body image discussions period, & all talk of confirmed body mods are strictly limited to the body mods and surgery megathread.

Sin #5: Speculation

Leave judgment for the gods and clairvoyance for the psychics. We don't speculate on sexual orientation, substance abuse, or mental or physical disorders here--this goes for assumptions and accusations of members of both the cast and this sub. All allegations insisting someone has an unnamed eating disorder, addiction, sexual orientation, or mental health issue will be deleted, with further consequences for repeat offenses. This also includes the Jace grooming thing.

Sin #6: Doxxing

This community draws a clear line where minors are concerned (even when cast and producers don’t). Any content featuring cast members' children (both underage and adult) is unwelcome in this sub.

Revealing a cast member's or user's personal & private info is strictly forbidden.

This rule also applies to all non-public figures associated with the cast. If they're not influencers & have not physically been on the show, they're in the no-fly zone.

Sin #7: Self-Promotion

Leave the Poppi product placements & MLMs to the cast. Posts promoting your etsy shop, brand, social media pages, blog, podcast, et. al. will be removed.

Sin #8: Ignoring the megathreads

We understand the tea is hot, but flooding the feed is not.

We have a wealth of megathreads pinned to the top of our page on the hottest topics. These are meant to centralize discussions & prevent traffic jams and clogs on the sub's feed. All posts that duplicate the purpose of these megathreads will be removed & redirected.

-Politics -Surgery/Body Mods: only place this topic is allowed -Demi/Marciano/Brett -TW: Abuse -Bachelorette -Season/Episode -Taylor Dakota stuff -Jessi on CHD

Sin #9 Touching the poop

Don't touch the poop, it's unsanitary, and creates needless mess and disease. If you reach out to the cast members via DMs and comments in an effort to provoke or attack them and elicit a response, we don't want to hear about it. If another person reaches out to them via DM with the same intentions and gets a response, we don't want to hear about it. All in all, keep your hands and poop to yourself. We're not interested.

Sin #10: Using the wrong sub

Uh oh, seems you're posting in the wrong community. This sub is dedicated to discussions around the original Secret Lives of Mormon Wives cast. To discuss the OC cast, please share your post on SecretLivesOC: https://www.reddit.com/r/SecretLivesOC/