r/GirlDinner

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This is a food-focused community. Posts or comments involving harassment, hate speech, bullying, sexism, racism, homophobia, transphobia & TERFness, political content, or eating-disorder related talk are not allowed. Keep it respectful, light, and centered on celebrating food.

No hard-hitting topics or trauma triggers in titles. Use warning flair.

Dinner table girl chat is so so welcome, but we require flair to warn of trauma dumps/vent sessions.

Explicit mention of depressive/suicidal thoughts, hard drugs, betrayals/cheating/dumping, abuse, assault, death, miscarriage, catastrophic diagnosis, political persecution, etc. should be INSIDE the post so users can choose to engage such topics or scroll on.

For specific examples of what's title-safe and what goes in-post, see details in the wiki. (under sub description)

Girl Dinner is a culinary style by girls, for humans!

To the hims, hers, NBs, & unsures: welcome! Gender's irrelevant to celebrating your goblin slop. Just don't make a point of sharing your non-girl identity like you're sticking a flag in our girl space. No need to be secretive but keep the focus on the food/occasion. Ex: "Boys do girl dinner too!" = no. "Finally starting HRT!" or "Celebrating Father's Day with kiddo & charcuterie!" = yes.

However you’re plumbed, be cool around the girls 😚✨

(and no, we don’t mean just AFAB girls. See Rule 1.)

Meals should be edible, gathered, improvised, and chaotic.

Girl dinner ≠ any dinner made by a girl.

In short, girl dinner is:

• edible (not just drinks, meds, smokes, etc.)
• gathered (a hodgepodge grouping, not one item)
• improvised (no high-effort kitchen wizardry, no low-effort takeout)
• chaotic (a pantry cleanout, wild flavor combo, cultural mashup, goblinesque presentation, etc.)
• not a meat-n-three plate (doesn’t fit the entree + coordinating sides format)

Full definition & examples are in the wiki!

Must be a singular meal.

No “what I eat in a day” summaries, no food collages, no multi-dinner recaps. It must be what you had for that one meal that day.

Boo the trolls.

Do. not. engage. Yes, even if they say THAT.

Just comment a good long "booooooooo" and report under this rule. This is most helpful to mods vs. arguing/clapbacks. Also amusing.

Mods have final say.

If something disrupts the vibe of the sub, mods may remove it at their discretion.

No spam, crowdfunding, stolen content, or self-promotion.

We do not allow crowdfunding, donations or any other form of begging for financial assistance. This includes requesting money on the behalf of others as well as yourself. Links to GoFundMe, Paypal, CashApp, etc, will be grounds for a permanent ban. This sub also does not accept self-promotion or advertisement of any kind. Do not promote Youtube, Twitter, Twitch, Onlyfans, other Subreddits or any site of any kind. Stolen content is prohibited.