r/r4rSA

Very strictly SFW only. No users with NSFW comment or post history, a NSFW username or NSFW setting.

All posts must be Safe for Work. Active NSFW posters are not permitted to participate in r/r4rSA. NSFW usernames may not participate in r/r4rSA . No sexual content, insinuations or suggestive phrases. No drugs. No discussions of illegal activities. The following submissions are prohibited: -Kink/Fetish/Affairs/Hookups/FWB/ONS/NSA/Poly/Sugar/Nudism etc.

Be very Kind, Supportive, Encouraging, Courteous & Respectful

Kindness & Respect are even more important in r4r communities, where interactions are at a far more personal level than on most subs. Be supportive & encouraging. We aspire to be the kindest & most respectful subReddit. No racism. No questioning anybody's preferences. Don't tell people what to do. No vulgar language. Spirit of Ubuntu. Anybody promoting hate based on identity or vulnerability will be banned. Remember the Human. Assume good faith. Raise issues with posts with mods, not users.

We recommend conversations begin in the public thread

This way you can be sure the user is not banned here. We have no way to monitor PMs / DMs

Include your age, tag, #location, and what you're looking for in the title

Please include your age and TAG in your title. E.g. 22 [f4m], [m4f], [f4f], [m4m], [t4f], [t4m], [m4r], [f4r], [t4r].

Example Title: 22[f4m] #Johannesburg. Seeking a hiking partner

Posts without a descriptive title may be removed!

Tagging Legend: M- Male F- Female T- Transgender NB- Non Binary A- Anyone/ R- Redditor

Only posts about connecting in South Africa or with South Africans

Post must be relevant to our community. South Africa - related posts regarding connecting with another Redditor only. No Sexual Assault or San Antonio posts (the SA in r4rSA stands for "South Africa")

No low effort posts, no spam, no selling stuff, no begging for money, no solicitations

No spam, selling stuff, or low effort posts (posts must be at least 50 words). To help prevent spam, we require users to have an account that is at least a week old and has 5 karma before posting or commenting. Do not post the same thing twice. Do not use this community mainly to promote products, services, businesses or personal channels. Posts should contribute to the community, not feel like advertisements. If you have a social event with a link or group event, please seek Mod approval.

Be Authentic & Be 18 years or older to participate

You don't have to use your real name, but do not intentionally mislead others or impersonate an individual or entity in a deceptive manner. Do not publicly accuse anybody of fake accounts - report to mods.

Do not share confidential details

No phone numbers, addresses, or identifying people. This includes usernames for any service, of any kind. Respect the privacy of others. Instigating harassment, for example by revealing someone’s personal or confidential information, is not allowed.

No Community-ism. No ban discussion.

Please do not post or comment negatively about other Reddit communities or their members. Please don't talk about being banned from other subreddits here.

Curated at the moderators' discretion

This sub is curated at the moderators' discretion. The rules are publicly available for all to read, and any violations of any of them may result in removal of the offending post and a permanent ban. Users' post and comment histories are also considered in making these decisions, including any opinions made elsewhere on Reddit that do not align with the spirit of this group.