r/NewFriendsOver40

Ridiculously Safe For Work Posts Only. No Nudity, NSFW, Suggestive or Provocative Posts!

• NO NUDITY!
• No bathing suits/bikinis
• No lingerie
• No sports bras
• No underboob
• No see through clothing
• No shirtless males
• No sex toys, or grabbing yourself
• No provocative posing
• No pulling clothing away, using unusual angles or leaning over to expose more skin

Moderators will remove anything they consider not safe for public viewing even if it is not listed above.

No insults, abuse, cruelty, hate, slurs, or any personal attacks.

All comments must remain positive and respectful. Insulting comments anything meant to antagonize, degrade, discomfort, or humiliate another member are not allowed.

Attacks based on race, religion, ethnic or national origin, sex, disability, sexual orientation, or gender identity are strictly prohibited. This includes all forms of shaming, slurs, or demeaning language.

There are no exceptions to this rule for any reason.

Violations may result in a permanent ban even on the first offense.

Selfie rules

Selfie Requirements

• The selfie must be a genuine photo of yourself.
• Photos must contain only you.
• Your full face must be clearly visible.
• Do not cover or obscure any part of your face with hands, objects, masks, hair, filters or effects.
• Use a normal camera angle that clearly shows your face.
• Avoid extreme angles that hide facial features.
• The image must not be AI, digitally created or manipulated.

No R4R or hook up type Posts

This community is for genuine, platonic friendships only. We are not a dating or matchmaking subreddit.

Posts or comments seeking romantic, sexual, or intimate relationships, or inviting private messages for those purposes, are not permitted.

To keep the focus on friendship, do not specify or exclude genders in your post (e.g. "M4F", "F4M", "women only", or "men only").

Friendship posts should be open to anyone looking to make genuine connections.

No Crude, Lewd, Rude, Sexual, or Otherwise Inappropriate Comments Allowed, Ever!

Comments that are sexual in nature or just rude/inappropriate are not allowed, period.

Inappropriate messages are messages that may contain:

Verbal harassment including jokes

Remarks of a sexual nature

Requests for posts of an explicit nature

Sexually suggestive gestures, notes, teasing, jokes

Unwanted flirtation or attention

Sexual intent - Would, Smash, etc.

Comments about physical features or attributes.

No double entendres

Nothing that could be taken sexual in any way

No Asking Members to DM or Chat Privately

Posts and comments are not invitations to start private conversations. Please do not ask posters or commenters to:

DM or PM you

Start a Reddit Chat

Add you on Snapchat, Instagram, Telegram, Discord, WhatsApp, or any other messaging platform

"Message me," "Check your DMs," or make similar requests

If you'd like to engage with someone, reply publicly in the comments. If they choose to continue the conversation privately, that decision should come from them without being prompted.

No Drama!

No Meta Posts

Don't discuss things outside of the sub inside the sub

Don't speculate on why someone posted

Don't argue with other members

Don't accuse other members of stuff

Don't get political or religious

Don't accuse the OP of breaking rules

Don't accuse someone of promoting

Don't talk about user's posts outside of the subreddit

Don't complain about Moderator/Reddit actions

No External Links, Self Promotion, Karma Farming, Wish Lists, P2P Pay Sites, Etc

No adult content creators, adult services (including Findom or sugar baby)

Used clothing sales

Wishlists (Throne, Amazon, etc.)

Donation requests

PayPal, Venmo, Cash App, crypto, or advertising any goods or services.

No karma farming.

Social media links, usernames, or promotion are not allowed in posts, comments, profiles, or watermarks.

Watermarks must exactly match your Reddit username. Violations anywhere on Reddit, even on another account, may result in a ban.

Maximum of 4 Posts Every 24 Hours

To keep the feed balanced and give everyone a chance to be seen, members may submit no more than four posts within any rolling 24-hour period.

If you reach the limit, please wait until 24 hours have passed since your earliest post before creating another. Posts made over the limit may be removed by our bot.

Comments are not affected by this rule, so feel free to keep chatting and joining conversations while you wait.

Moderator's Have Final Say on All Posts & Comments

Moderators are tasked with making this subreddit true to the theme and ideas of the subreddit. As such they have the final authority to remove any post or comment they feel does not fit the character of the subreddit regardless on if any of the rules listed above are or are not broken.

TL/DR - Moderators, not the OP or OC, are the authority that interprets whether or not a comment fits the rules and can remove any post or comment for any reason they see fit even if it is only because they want