r/MenAndFemales

"Female" as an adjective is okay. "Female" as a noun is not.

For example: "my female coworker...", "her female friends.." DO NOT fit this sub.

"Guys and girls" do not qualify for this sub.

Many people use "girls" the same way they use "guys", as an all-encompassing term for one gender. "Girls" only qualifies if it is used with "men".

Example: "Men, what do you find attractive in girls?" belongs here

"Guys, what do you find attractive in girls?" does not belong here.

"Males and females" do not qualify for this sub.

This sub is for pointing out dehumanizing language that is targeted at women. A person using "males" and "females" equally is not what this sub is for.

Do not post "Women and Males" here, there is already a sub for that

The sub (r/WomenAndMales) was created as a reaction to this sub, and so obviously it is not very active and is only used by MRAs.

Do not call men "males" ironically.

It only fuels the misogynists.

Censor subreddit names and Reddit username(s) that are not your own

We do not want users tagged to be harassed, or other subs' comments to be brigaded, or our sub brigaded.

Crop out irrelevant information

Please crop out all irrelevant information from a picture, including irrelevant comments and borders

Irrelevant information makes posts hard to read. Post your example of "female" being used as a noun and a comment or two for context, not the entire thread.

No name calling or harassment. Be civil.

This includes targeted slurs

"Birthing people" and the like are not dehumanizing, even if paired with "men"

CIVIL discussions regarding sensitive topics are allowed. This sub will not be an echo chamber.

Sensitive topics of discussion are allowed, I will not ban someone for stating their opinions. This sub will not be an echo chamber, but discussions must remain civil.

Its important to have these discussions and to hear new perspectives and ideas. Reading both sides of an argument helps promote your own research and open-mindedness, and can help strengthen your own arguments in discussions outside of reddit.

No Trolling

Any behaviour intended to get a rise out of people and make them uncomfortable will be considered trolling. If your intention was to upset people or your actions caused harm, we may ban you without warning for acting like a troll.

This is not an advice subreddit

If you wilfully ignore the rules and announcements of this subreddit and post asking for advice, we reserve the right to ban you, as it demonstrates a lack of care or consideration for this community and our purpose.

Please tag incel content

Content from the incel website and various r/inceltear posts can be very upsetting. Use your best judgement, especially if it’s something horrendous like fantasising about abuse of women and girls, and tag it either with spoiler or NSFW to warn people and give them a chance to click away.